377. The Disputed Child Must Return to the Father
Last October, a child from Cittadella in Treviso,
Italy was removed from school and forcibly
dragged away by his father with the help of the police and transferred to, let’s
call it, " a protected house" as if he did not have a house already! In March, the Supreme Court entrusted the
child to his mother. Now the
Court of Appeal of Brescia gives final custody to the father.
After reading the
following article from the "Giornale.it" (see link below) I agreed
with the first comment after which others followed. So as not to cause problems, I am publishing
only my own. I am also adding links in order to give the background to the
story in English.
occhiotv
Mon, 20/05/2013
- 11:30
But do you realize what's going on in the
head of this child? The damages present
and future that are being caused? I
do not know whose fault it was, but I think if now, after what has already
passed, if he had been left with his mother with all the rights of the father
to see him and take turns to be with him, would have been be the best thing. I'm a grandfather so I can relate to this
drama, "and if it happened to my granddaughter," it would be
staggering. Therefore I believe
that the resentment of the father to get to have custody, is just selfishness,
and since he is a lawyer, wants to see how good he is at getting his own way. But is it right for the child?????
Eva
Ulian
Mon, 20/05/2013
- 13:04
I fully agree with what occhiotv wrote... certainly in Italy there is no
justice, and this is a case to be brought before a court outside of Italy, as
far as the EU or even the UN Human Rights for children because that child’s
rights has not been at all protected.
Eva
Ulian
Mon, 20/05/2013
- 16:03
Too easy to say that the mother would not
let the child see his father- and what if it was the child who did not want to
see the father? This child has no
say in the matter, he has merely been torn
away from his world with an insensible violence last October ... and this, all for the good of the
child? It 's a case to be brought
before a worldwide court for the rights of children.
Eva
Ulian
Mon, 20/05/2013
- 17:55
For those gentlemen to which my way of
thinking is scary as they so claim, let me say it shows that they love violence
against children, because to snatch a child from his world, his friends, his
companions, his grandparents, uncles, mom, toys, home, school, dogs or cats by
force and drag him along the pavement of a street and put in an institution... this is not violence?? It 's a case to be put before the
court for the protection of children at UNICEF where “caste” does not count and
the judges know what they are doing.
Eva
Ulian
Mon, 20/05/2013
- 20:43
Even if, and it is a big if, that PAS
(illness of hatred against parent) exists, this does not justify the violence
that the child has suffered and continues to suffer, since his conditions are
imposed on him with force and not by
choice. No parent has the right
to impose their presence forcibly. A parent, PAS or no PAS must earn the love and
esteem of the child, not subject the child to their presence by force, causing
discomfort, because in the end a child may very well interpret this act for
what it is, violence. The child has the right to refuse anyone he doesn’t
want. It cannot be imposed upon a child to love on command, No parent has the
right to do this. Unfortunately,
the violence continues because the right of the child is still trampled on since
his wishes are not taken into consideration. Someone
should protect the rights of the child in front of the Court for the protection
of children’s rights at UNICEF, so perhaps this child will then no longer have
to suffer further unwanted impositions upon him.
Italian link
to "Il Giornale" http://www.ilgiornale.it/news/cronache/bambino-conteso-cittadella-corte-dappello-deve-tornare-padre-918965.html?update=1
