298. Staving off Paedophiles
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In
my last post I mentioned how greatly infiltrated paedophiles are
in our society and how they have been able to become so proliferate because
society never woke up to this evilness amongst us until Catholic priests became
involved and so paedophiles were able to worm they way into our society quite
undisturbed.
I
also mentioned that the figures are quite staggering and they
are just the ones the law could pin down, but there are hordes of paedophiles
out there still unidentified as such. As
it is so difficult for the law to catch these individuals, observing how
children behave and are treated in our society, I made out this list on how to
stave off paedophiles.
1. There is safety in numbers.
a. In social situations a
child is often surrounded by other children.
Parents, in the first instance and any adults in charge should always
insure that no child is allowed to be left alone, and in particular not to be
left alone with just one other adult.
b. As paedophiles
are most likely to be found within one’s family circle or a close friend of
the family, it is easy for a paedophile embedded in such surroundings to lead a
child away with the compliance of parents, since he is a trusted member of the
circle. Parents should be always
vigilant if a child is taken out of the group by one other adult- no matter who
that adult is- such a situation is always suspect and should be diligently investigated.
2. Understanding what makes someone a
paedophile
.
Firstly, a man dwells on the
idea. Some scientists say their cells are
pre-disposed to paedophilia, they have urges they are unable to control. I don’t agree with that idea. I am predisposed to blowing my neighbours
head off with a shot gun every time she threatens to kill my dogs because they
go on her land, and my urge to do so, believe me is totally uncontrollable- but
I don’t do it... blow my neighbour’s head off, that is. One is capable of educating one’s urges to be
kept under control, of course given for granted that the paedophiles parents’
have taught him the difference between right and wrong. If they haven’t then this paedophile believes
all is permitted included to satisfy one’s desires by harming children. On the other hand the paedophile’s parents
may have been over-severe that his desires have been stifled, instead of being channelled
into something good- hence these desires break out like an uncontrollable rash.
3. Women’s Role.
Women’s role in our society have
changed greatly and it seems that the tables have been overturned. Some women may not agree, but in the West we
have seen most women become the dominant sex with the consequence that most men
have become afraid of women, especially in bed- hence a man will console
himself with what he can handle- a child.
4. Make your child happy.
A sombre child is easy prey to any
paedophile. A happy child does not need
to seek shelter in the company of someone who is enticing him or her with undue
tenderness. Making a child happy does
not mean he is allowed to do all he or she wants, when and how he wants otherwise
he will grow up without distinguishing the difference from right and wrong and
in turn become a paedophile himself- the same is true for excessive severity.
Basically,
staving off paedophiles is a parent’s job, but if it’s done well, your child is
safe.
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